{"id":27599,"date":"2015-02-18T05:29:09","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T05:29:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.firdevstalkturkey.com\/uncategorized-tr\/violence-deeply-embedded-in-turkish-society-2\/"},"modified":"2015-02-18T05:31:56","modified_gmt":"2015-02-18T05:31:56","slug":"violence-deeply-embedded-in-turkish-society","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.firdevstalkturkey.com\/tr\/violence-deeply-embedded-in-turkish-society\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de \u015fiddet, toplumun iliklerine i\u015flemi\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"
20 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00fcniversite \u00f6\u011frencisi \u00d6zgecan Aslan\u2019\u0131n, bindi\u011fi minib\u00fcste, tecav\u00fcz giri\u015fimi ard\u0131ndan hunharca \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesi, do\u011fal olarak \u00fclke \u00e7ap\u0131nda infial yaratt\u0131. Ge\u00e7en Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc Mersin\u2019de yak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f cesedi bulunan Aslan i\u00e7in, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin d\u00f6rt bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde binlerce insan sokaklara d\u00f6k\u00fcld\u00fc. Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddetin son derece yayg\u0131n oldu\u011fu ve cezas\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, cinayetlerin neredeyse g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131 haline geldi\u011fi \u00fclkede, protesto g\u00f6sterilerinin yayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar, dile getirilen \u00f6fkenin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f boyutlardayd\u0131. Cenaze t\u00f6reninde \u0130slami geleneklere uymay\u0131 reddeden kad\u0131nlar, \u00d6zgecan\u2019\u0131n tabutunu omuzlad\u0131. Binlerce ki\u015fi, i\u015fyerleri ve okullar\u0131na siyah yas giysileriyle gitti. Her ya\u015ftan kad\u0131n, sosyal medyada #sendeanlat etiketiyle, kendi ya\u015famlar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 tecav\u00fcz, \u015fiddet ve sark\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131k \u00f6rneklerini payla\u015farak, sorunun ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck oldu\u011funu bir kez daha sergilediler.<\/p>\n
Baz\u0131 yorumcular, \u00d6zgecan Aslan\u2019\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesine g\u00f6sterilen tepkiyi \u2018k\u0131r\u0131lma noktas\u0131\u2019 diye tan\u0131mlarken, kimileri de, cinayeti, \u00a0kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k ve \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 verilen m\u00fccadelede bir d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktas\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fcler.<\/p>\n
Daha \u00f6nce e\u015fine rastlanmam\u0131\u015f bu \u00f6fke ve protestolar\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131 bir etkisi olur mu, s\u00f6zgelimi ge\u00e7en y\u0131l May\u0131s ay\u0131nda ya\u015fanan Soma maden facias\u0131 \u00f6rne\u011finden \u00a0daha farkl\u0131 kurumsal bir de\u011fi\u015fime yol a\u00e7ar m\u0131, do\u011frusu emin de\u011filim.<\/p>\n
Ama en az\u0131ndan benim i\u00e7in, sadece kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131, cinsiyet temelinde kendini g\u00f6steren \u015fiddetin de\u011fil, toplum taraf\u0131ndan ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fclen, normalle\u015ftirilen hatta onaylanan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015fiddetin nas\u0131l iliklerimize kadar i\u015fledi\u011fini bir kez daha g\u00f6stermesi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan ger\u00e7ekten bir milat oldu.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de evinde anas\u0131 babas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan d\u00f6v\u00fclen, okulda \u00f6\u011fretmeni taraf\u0131ndan sopalanan , askerde komutan\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan cezaland\u0131r\u0131lan, sokakta polis taraf\u0131ndan coplanan, gaza bo\u011fulan erkek, kendi \u00f6zel hayat\u0131nda da ayn\u0131 \u015fiddeti kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 uyguluyor. Hala b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde peder\u015fahi bir toplum olan \u00fclkede, baban\u0131n ve kocan\u0131n aile i\u00e7indeki hakimiyeti ve otoritesi, \u00a0hem k\u00fclt\u00fcrel hem de dini normlarla destekleniyor, ayakta tutuluyor. Kad\u0131nlar ise, do\u011fduklar\u0131 g\u00fcnden mezara girdikleri ana kadar hem ailede hem de toplumda cinsiyet ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve e\u015fitsizlikle m\u00fccadele ediyor. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n erkeklerle e\u015fit hak ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklere sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her toplumda oldu\u011fu gibi T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de de \u015fiddet, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131. % 40 gibi bir oran, d\u00fczenli olarak aile i\u00e7i\u00a0 \u015fiddetle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor. Sabanc\u0131 \u00dcniversitesinin son \u00a0ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na <\/a>g\u00f6re, aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddete hemen her sosyal s\u0131n\u0131fta rastlanabiliyor. \u00dcniversite mezunlar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fczde 75\u2019i, hayatlar\u0131nda en az bir kere \u015fiddet kurban\u0131 olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n \u015eiddet e\u011filimi, toplumsal, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel, ekonomik ve siyasi alanlarda bireyler aras\u0131ndaki anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcnde ba\u015fvurulmas\u0131 normal kar\u015f\u0131lanan hatta avantajl\u0131 bulunan bir y\u00f6ntem olarak beliriyor.\u00a0 T\u00fcrkiye B\u00fcy\u00fck Millet Meclisinde bile milletvekilleri, zaman zaman birbirlerine tekme tokat sald\u0131r\u0131yor, kavgalarda kafalar g\u00f6zler yar\u0131l\u0131yor. Hemen her g\u00fcn \u00fclkenin d\u00f6rt bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde , doktorlar ve sa\u011fl\u0131k g\u00f6revlileri, hastalar\u0131n ya da yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131na maruz kal\u0131yor. Yollarda, ufak tefek kazalarda\u00a0 yumrukla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor, eften p\u00fcften anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ya karakolda ya hastanede son buluyor.<\/p>\n